Walking with the Wise

“Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” — Proverbs 13:20

The people you walk with determine the direction you go. Wisdom is contagious — and so is foolishness.

If you spend time with people who think deeply, act with integrity, and pursue truth, you’ll find those qualities rubbing off on you. But if your circle lives carelessly, makes impulsive choices, or disregards wisdom, you will eventually pay the same price. 

Wisdom Is a Path, Not a Personality

Walking with the wise doesn’t mean surrounding yourself with “perfect” people. It means choosing companions who seek wisdom — who ask questions, listen well, and pursue growth.

The Bible consistently presents wisdom not as something you have, but as something you walk in:

“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” (Proverbs 9:10)

“He who walks with integrity walks securely.” (Proverbs 10:9)

Wisdom grows through humility, accountability, and community.

What Walking with the Wise Looks Like

1. They elevate your perspective. Wise friends challenge your assumptions and invite you to see beyond your comfort zone.
2. They speak truth in love. They don’t flatter — they care enough to be honest. (Ephesians 4:15)
3. They model consistency. Wisdom shows in patterns, not moments. You’ll see it in their patience, their calm in conflict, and their integrity when no one’s watching.
4. They anchor you in faith. The truly wise don’t just give opinions; they point you back to God’s Word and His principles.

The Cost of Ignoring This

Proverbs warns plainly:

“A companion of fools suffers harm.” 

Even if you start with strong values, walking too closely with the wrong influences will gradually dull your discernment. You become what you behold — and you will reflect the people you spend the most time with.

A Practical Invitation for This Week

1. Evaluate your circle. Who in your life consistently demonstrates wisdom, integrity, and faith?
2. Seek their company. Spend more time learning, listening, and serving alongside them.
3. Be teachable. Walking with the wise isn’t about being impressive — it’s about being willing to grow.

Closing Thought

Wisdom isn’t taught in classrooms alone; it’s caught in community. The people you walk with shape the person you become.

So choose companions who sharpen your thinking, strengthen your faith, and steady your steps. Because the company of the wise doesn’t just change your path — it transforms your life.

Next in our series “Relationships That Build You Up”: The Power of Mentors and Role Models — how to find guidance that accelerates your growth and strengthens your character.